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		<title>Comment on Resources online and beyond for the aspiring mediator by Jeff Thompson</title>
		<link>http://mediationchannel.com/2010/05/13/resources-online-for-the-aspiring-mediator/#comment-2377</link>
		<dc:creator><![CDATA[Jeff Thompson]]></dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Mon, 17 May 2010 12:20:05 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[Thanks for listing ADRhub.com!

Yet another wonderful post by you with you doing all the hard work for those new and old to the field.

Thank you yet again!

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		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Thanks for listing ADRhub.com!</p>
<p>Yet another wonderful post by you with you doing all the hard work for those new and old to the field.</p>
<p>Thank you yet again!<br />
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		<title>Comment on Resources online and beyond for the aspiring mediator by Philip J. Loree Jr.</title>
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		<dc:creator><![CDATA[Philip J. Loree Jr.]]></dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Mon, 17 May 2010 00:04:54 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[Diane,

Thanks so much for mentioning the Commercial and Industry Arbitration and Mediation Group, and for your kind words about it.

On the subject of resources for cognition I highly recommend a book I&#039;m reading by Circuit Judge Richard A. Posner entitled How Judges Think.  Drawing on psychology, politics, economics, philosophy, pragmatism, decision theory, and other disciplines, Posner gives the reader unique insights into how judges think.  Anyone interested in mediating or negotiating cases pending in state or federal court could certainly improve his or her skills by knowing something about the &quot;alternative-decision-maker&#039;s&quot; perspective on the conflict, and Posner has written a tour de force on the subject.

Phil]]></description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Diane,</p>
<p>Thanks so much for mentioning the Commercial and Industry Arbitration and Mediation Group, and for your kind words about it.</p>
<p>On the subject of resources for cognition I highly recommend a book I&#8217;m reading by Circuit Judge Richard A. Posner entitled How Judges Think.  Drawing on psychology, politics, economics, philosophy, pragmatism, decision theory, and other disciplines, Posner gives the reader unique insights into how judges think.  Anyone interested in mediating or negotiating cases pending in state or federal court could certainly improve his or her skills by knowing something about the &#8220;alternative-decision-maker&#8217;s&#8221; perspective on the conflict, and Posner has written a tour de force on the subject.</p>
<p>Phil</p>
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		<title>Comment on Print and online resources for mediation and negotiation by Tweets that mention Print and online resources for mediation and negotiation — Mediation Channel -- Topsy.com</title>
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		<pubDate>Fri, 14 May 2010 22:13:57 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[[...] This post was mentioned on Twitter by Ben Ziegler. Ben Ziegler said: Wonderful list of &quot;print and online resources for mediation and negotiation&quot; from @dianelevin http://tinyurl.com/29o5h3k [...]]]></description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>[...] This post was mentioned on Twitter by Ben Ziegler. Ben Ziegler said: Wonderful list of &quot;print and online resources for mediation and negotiation&quot; from @dianelevin <a href="http://tinyurl.com/29o5h3k" rel="nofollow">http://tinyurl.com/29o5h3k</a> [...]</p>
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		<title>Comment on Resources online and beyond for the aspiring mediator by Tweets that mention Resources online and beyond for the aspiring mediator — Mediation Channel -- Topsy.com</title>
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		<pubDate>Thu, 13 May 2010 21:42:42 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[[...] This post was mentioned on Twitter by Tammy Lenski. Tammy Lenski said: Terrific list of resources for aspiring mediators from @dianelevin http://bit.ly/a9sXPj [...]]]></description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>[...] This post was mentioned on Twitter by Tammy Lenski. Tammy Lenski said: Terrific list of resources for aspiring mediators from @dianelevin <a href="http://bit.ly/a9sXPj" rel="nofollow">http://bit.ly/a9sXPj</a> [...]</p>
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		<title>Comment on Mediation and law, strange bedfellows: time for us to start seeing other people? by Tweets that mention Mediation and law, strange bedfellows: time for us to start seeing other people? — Mediation Channel -- Topsy.com</title>
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		<pubDate>Thu, 13 May 2010 13:25:34 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[[...] This post was mentioned on Twitter by Rita Handrich, PhD, Stuart Adams. Stuart Adams said: RT @TheJuryExpert: Mediation &amp; law, strange bedfellows: time for us to start seeing other people? http://bit.ly/c5Dx2t [...]]]></description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>[...] This post was mentioned on Twitter by Rita Handrich, PhD, Stuart Adams. Stuart Adams said: RT @TheJuryExpert: Mediation &amp; law, strange bedfellows: time for us to start seeing other people? <a href="http://bit.ly/c5Dx2t" rel="nofollow">http://bit.ly/c5Dx2t</a> [...]</p>
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		<title>Comment on Mediation and law, strange bedfellows: time for us to start seeing other people? by Diane Levin</title>
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		<dc:creator><![CDATA[Diane Levin]]></dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Thu, 13 May 2010 09:20:54 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[Amanda, once again, you have put your finger precisely on it. Thanks for the view from someone with your experienced and learned vantage point.]]></description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Amanda, once again, you have put your finger precisely on it. Thanks for the view from someone with your experienced and learned vantage point.</p>
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		<title>Comment on Mediation and law, strange bedfellows: time for us to start seeing other people? by Amanda Bucklow</title>
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		<dc:creator><![CDATA[Amanda Bucklow]]></dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Thu, 13 May 2010 03:43:36 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[Once again Diane, you have alighted on a topic which is currently rolling around my brain. Most recently because I heard a quote from a litigator as follows: &quot;When the cow&#039;s been milked and there&#039;s nothing left, it&#039;s a great way to settle without the risk of having been found to be wrong.&quot; This is not an uncommon view.

To my mind and in my experience the legal bias for the context of mediation is a real problem for the growth of mediation because it puts it into the same &quot;incomprehensible&quot; bracket as the law is for most people. By way of example, our recently deposed government introduced over 3000 separate items of legislation EACH YEAR during their time in government. How is the average person or even the average business person supposed to feel they can understand the law that applies to them? It is a &quot;rabbit in the headlights&quot; scenario.

It is a question of &quot;education&quot; in part but it is also a question of responsibility. Understanding the usefulness, effectiveness and appropriateness of mediation is a question at least of corporate governance if not a personal one. In the meantime, what can we do to shift the balance? If you had any other product that was as reliable and effective as mediation is, someone would have put a lot of money into promotion and development by now. In commercial terms, the public don&#039;t know that they need it and their lawyers won&#039;t tell them until they have to. It is an opportunity. It needs entrepreneurs not hobbyists or to be practiced as a pension top up.]]></description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Once again Diane, you have alighted on a topic which is currently rolling around my brain. Most recently because I heard a quote from a litigator as follows: &#8220;When the cow&#8217;s been milked and there&#8217;s nothing left, it&#8217;s a great way to settle without the risk of having been found to be wrong.&#8221; This is not an uncommon view.</p>
<p>To my mind and in my experience the legal bias for the context of mediation is a real problem for the growth of mediation because it puts it into the same &#8220;incomprehensible&#8221; bracket as the law is for most people. By way of example, our recently deposed government introduced over 3000 separate items of legislation EACH YEAR during their time in government. How is the average person or even the average business person supposed to feel they can understand the law that applies to them? It is a &#8220;rabbit in the headlights&#8221; scenario.</p>
<p>It is a question of &#8220;education&#8221; in part but it is also a question of responsibility. Understanding the usefulness, effectiveness and appropriateness of mediation is a question at least of corporate governance if not a personal one. In the meantime, what can we do to shift the balance? If you had any other product that was as reliable and effective as mediation is, someone would have put a lot of money into promotion and development by now. In commercial terms, the public don&#8217;t know that they need it and their lawyers won&#8217;t tell them until they have to. It is an opportunity. It needs entrepreneurs not hobbyists or to be practiced as a pension top up.</p>
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		<title>Comment on Mediation and law, strange bedfellows: time for us to start seeing other people? by Diane Levin</title>
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		<dc:creator><![CDATA[Diane Levin]]></dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Thu, 13 May 2010 01:24:52 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[Bathabile, thanks for your kind comment and for sharing your experience. Indeed, we have much work ahead of us to educate the public and to promote a more expansive understanding of the possibilities that mediation holds. It&#039;s a pleasure to hear from you - and to be introduced to your site. Best wishes from Boston to NY!]]></description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Bathabile, thanks for your kind comment and for sharing your experience. Indeed, we have much work ahead of us to educate the public and to promote a more expansive understanding of the possibilities that mediation holds. It&#8217;s a pleasure to hear from you &#8211; and to be introduced to your site. Best wishes from Boston to NY!</p>
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		<title>Comment on Mediation and law, strange bedfellows: time for us to start seeing other people? by Bathabile Mthombeni</title>
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		<dc:creator><![CDATA[Bathabile Mthombeni]]></dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Wed, 12 May 2010 15:24:16 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[Hi Diane,

Thank you so much for bringing this up.  I am very concerned that underlying philosophies of mediation, the values that make mediation work, are so often misunderstood and misused.  I understand that there are a number of schools of thought and practice.  However, requiring subject-matter expertise is not (or should not be) one of them.  Isn&#039;t the point that the participants are the experts and the mediator is there to learn and guide learning about the underlying issues?

I have been contacted by a number of lawyers looking to transition into mediation practice who ask me about the field.  When I tell them that it is not not part of my role to determine what is true they ask, &quot;but how do you make a decision&quot;?

We have quite a lot of work to do to educate the general public about the unique benefits of mediation and a need for serious dialogue about the direction of the field.  I am glad for blogs like yours (and Jeff&#039;s) that provide that kind of information and conversation.

Best,

Bathabile
www.123untangled.com.]]></description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Hi Diane,</p>
<p>Thank you so much for bringing this up.  I am very concerned that underlying philosophies of mediation, the values that make mediation work, are so often misunderstood and misused.  I understand that there are a number of schools of thought and practice.  However, requiring subject-matter expertise is not (or should not be) one of them.  Isn&#8217;t the point that the participants are the experts and the mediator is there to learn and guide learning about the underlying issues?</p>
<p>I have been contacted by a number of lawyers looking to transition into mediation practice who ask me about the field.  When I tell them that it is not not part of my role to determine what is true they ask, &#8220;but how do you make a decision&#8221;?</p>
<p>We have quite a lot of work to do to educate the general public about the unique benefits of mediation and a need for serious dialogue about the direction of the field.  I am glad for blogs like yours (and Jeff&#8217;s) that provide that kind of information and conversation.</p>
<p>Best,</p>
<p>Bathabile<br />
<a href="http://www.123untangled.com" rel="nofollow">http://www.123untangled.com</a>.</p>
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		<title>Comment on Mediation and law, strange bedfellows: time for us to start seeing other people? by Diane Levin</title>
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		<dc:creator><![CDATA[Diane Levin]]></dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Wed, 12 May 2010 10:38:36 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[Jeff, I stand corrected! :)]]></description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Jeff, I stand corrected! <img src='http://s0.wp.com/wp-includes/images/smilies/icon_smile.gif' alt=':)' class='wp-smiley' /> </p>
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