Monthly Archives: June 2006

Ten habits of highly successful mediation trainers

Mediation trainers strive to be their best--10 tips to help them get thereMediation trainers face an important responsibility. We prepare individuals for mediation practice, playing an integral role in the foundational stages of their professional development.

In addition to being effective trainers, as mentors we must demonstrate exemplary mediation skills ourselves, modeling for our students effective communication skills, collaborative problem solving techniques, patience, and respect. In that sense, mediation training constitutes a microcosm of mediation practice itself.

Serving as a trainer is a profound commitment, not just to the individuals we teach but to the advancement of the field and to building public confidence in our profession.

The best trainers I know are always looking for ways to get better at what they do. I was glad to discover, via George’s Employment Blawg, this top ten list of attributes of an effective trainer from the Canadian IT Manager blog, part 2 of a two-part article. Part 1 lists 10 additional attributes, including one which particularly resonated with me: willingness to be a lifelong learner. After all, as those of us who train know, our students can be our best teachers.

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Playground games a safety threat or a medium for teaching dispute resolution skills? You decide

Schools ban playground gamesFirst safety-conscious (or fun-hating, depending on your perspective) school administrators banned dodgeball.

Next in their sights is tag, according to a story in USA Today, “‘Not it!’ More schools ban games at recess“.

Banning playground games like tag, however, may hold serious consequences for children’s social development:

Critics of the bans say playing freely helps kids learn to negotiate rules and resolve disputes. “They learn to change and to problem-solve,” says Rhonda Clements, an education professor at Manhattanville College.

(Thanks to the alert reader who sent me this.)

Dropping Knowledge: Global initiative brings the whole world to the table for conversation

dropping knowledge is a large-scale public conversation projectOne of the best of the new conflict resolution blogs that have emerged this year is ICT for Peacebuilding, a blog based in Sri Lanka “exploring the use of technology for conflict transformation”.

Dispute resolution professionals eager to gain a glimpse into the future of the conflict resolution movement will want to follow this cutting-edge blog, particularly those seeking a global perspective.

Its author, Sanjana Hattotuwa, shares with his readers news of an extraordinary project: dropping knowledge, an international initiative for social change using the medium of the web to bring people around the globe together for what may be the world’s largest public conversation about important issues. From the dropping knowledge overview:

dropping knowledge is a global initiative to turn apathy into activity. By hosting an open conversation on the most pressing issues of our times, we will foster a worldwide exchange of viewpoints, ideas and people-powered solutions. However knowledge is defined, by dropping it freely to others, we all gain wisdom…

dropping knowledge is a way of asking and answering questions that respects other viewpoints and leads to a meaningful exchange. When you ask in order to understand, when you answer in order to share, you are already practicing dropping knowledge.

The dropping knowledge project includes a Table of Free Voices scheduled on September 9, 2006, in Berlin, for what will be a gathering of “scientists, social entrepreneurs, philosophers, writers, artists and activists from around the world…, renowned for their lasting creative, social or humanistic contribution” who will respond to 100 questions from the global public.

You can post your own question for these experts to answer or find other ways to support this large-scale public conversation project by visiting the dropping knowledge web site.

Virtual worlds can serve as convenient locations for real-world meetings

Virtual worlds facilitate social and business networkingRecently I reported that a pair of peer mediation educators were using Second Life, a multiplayer online game and virtual world which allows for player interaction, as a way to create a supportive, safe learning environment for high school students mastering mediation skills to role play together.

Here’s another example of the power of virtual worlds to transform social interactions: in “Get a Second Life Now“, communication expert Neville Hobson describes attending a meeting on avatar-based marketing organized by the Berkman Center for Internet and Society at Harvard Law School.

What was remarkable about this meeting is that it was convened not in a real-world conference center but instead took place in a virtual meeting space in Second Life.

Read Hobson’s post for this remarkable description of a meeting mediated entirely through digital technology.

The implications of this are exciting–imagine attending a conference where colleagues gather from around the globe, all without the cost and inconvenience of air travel, car rentals, and hotels (and just think, you’ll never have to worry about losing your luggage).

Mapping the blogosphere yields information about human behavior for social scientists

Mapping the blogosphereSocial scientists, hoping to explore the uncharted terrain of human behavior in cyberspace, are mapping online interactions by studying blogs, according to “Human Trails In Cyberspace“, an article in this week’s edition of the Chronicle of Higher Education (although it doesn’t right now, this article may soon require a subscription to access).

Among the researchers are Lada Adamic, an assistant professor in the School of Information at the University of Michigan at Ann Arbor, who created a map of ties among political bloggers, and Matthew Hurst, director of science and innovation for Nielsen BuzzMetrics, a company that helps businesses track and analyze trends in consumer-generated media (i.e., blogs, online forums, and newsgroups).

You can download the article Adamic co-authored, “Expressing Social Relationships on the Blog through Links and Comments” (in PDF), on her web site. To see Hurst’s project, visit his blog, Data Mining, for more information and to see his visual representations of the complex strands of connection among blogs.

Web site serves as online guide to help families avoid fights over inheritance

Web site assists families avoid estate planning disputesThe University of Minnesota has produced an online guide designed to assist families prevent and address disputes over estates. Who Gets Grandma’s Yellow Pie Plate offers information and resources to aid families in making tough, emotionally fraught decisions over the inheritance of personal property.

There are free articles available as well on this site, along with some quizzes to assess your estate planning preparedness.

Mediators, however, will come away disappointed. Although this excellent site offers useful material and resources, mediation was somehow omitted from a web site created to assist families prevent, reduce, and address conflicts over estate-related issues.

(Thanks to Joel Schoenmeyer, author of the Death and Taxes Blog, for the link.)

Will the end of religion bring world peace? Controversial author argues yes

In “Why Religion Must End“, a Beliefnet interview that will surely offend almost any person of faith, controversial author Sam Harris argues that the only way to end world conflict is for people to embrace reason over religion.

What do you think? You can read reactions to Harris’s interview here.

Without facilitators and structure, brainstorming a waste of time, experts say

Best ideas come out of structured, well organized brainstorming sessions led by a facilitator who knows what they're doingAs anyone who has attended one knows, brainstorming sessions can be productive or they can be an utter mind-numbing waste of time. To prevent an organizational brainstorming session from degenerating into “coblabberation,” experts suggest that a skilled facilitator together with a well-designed process is the best way to get the most out of brainstorming, according to a recent article from the Wall Street Journal–something which mediators know from their own experience.

(Via Boing Boing.)

World Directory of Alternative Dispute Resolution Blogs has 8 new additions

World Directory of ADR BlogsSeveral weeks ago I announced the official launch of the new home of the World Directory of Alternative Dispute Resolution Blogs.

Since then, there have been some new additions — eight, in fact. In some cases the bloggers were kind enough to contact me directly to introduce themselves and ask to be included; others were my own happy discovery. In any case, I am pleased to welcome the following eight blogs to the Directory:

  • Blog Solomediacion.com. Based in Spain, this blog is published by Solomediacion.com, a web portal with frequently updated content providing a range of services and resources for Spanish-speaking mediators.
  • Community Mediation Center Blog. This blog is published by The Community Mediation Center, a not-for-profit mediation center in southeastern Virginia, U.S., which, according to its web site, “provides education and services to build the capacity of youth, families, individuals, organizations, businesses, and communities to more effectively resolve, reduce and prevent conflict.”
  • Divorce Law Journal. I’ve described this excellent blog as one which offers “lucidly written, intelligent analysis” of legal issues, and I stand by that. This blog consistently delivers the goods. Although its Louisville-based author Diana Skaggs tracks Kentucky divorce and family law, her blog has a nation-wide scope, staying abreast of developments in these practice areas across the U.S. For American mediators who work closely with divorcing couples and families, this blog, published by a mediation-friendly attorney, is a must-read stop on the web.
  • Gestão de Conflitos Familiares (Family Conflicts). This Portuguese language blog published from Brazil by Lisiane Lindenmeyer Kalil focuses on the resolution of conflict within the family through a primarily legal and psychological approach. In the words of its author, “Este é um espaço de reflexão sobre as possíveis formas de gestão (ou “resolução”, ou “solução”, ou “gerenciamento”, ou “equacionamento”, enfim…) dos conflitos ocorridos no âmbito da família, sob um enfoque principalmente jurídico e psicológico.”
  • The Institute for International Mediation and Conflict Resolution Blog. Published by the IIMCR, this blog provides news, analysis, and commentary relating to conflict resolution in the global arena.
  • Justiça Restaurativa em Portugal. This Portuguese language weblog was created to promote restorative justice practices, theory, and events in Portugal. I believe this is the first blog anywhere in the world to focus on restorative justice as its primary subject matter.
  • Securities Law Weblog. This blog, published by SECLaw.com, comments on securities law development, including securities law, rules, regulations, and securities arbitration.
  • Workplace Prof Blog. A member of the Law Professor Blogs Network and co-authored by law professors Richard Bales and Paul Secunda, this highly respected blog tracks and reports on developments in labor and employment law, including matters relating to alternative dispute resolution and the workplace, particularly arbitration.

If you wish to add your blog or someone else’s to the World Directory of ADR Blogs, please let me know. It’s a completely commercial-free site, and there is no cost to be listed. The Directory has information on submitting your blog and submission guidelines.

My great appreciation to those of you who were kind enough to link to the old or new versions of the Directory from your own blogs. Your support means a great deal. My thanks goes to:

Robert Ambrogi
Blonde Justice
Lisiane Lindenmeyer Kalil
Ethan Katsh
Law Librarian Blog
Tammy Lenski
National Arbitration Forum Blog
Justin Patten
Ross Runkel
Joel Schoenmeyer
Diana Skaggs
Bill Warters
Robert Williamson

(If I left someone out, please drop me a line and let me know–I’ll make sure I add your name.)

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A convincing case for net neutrality

Support net neutralityKevin O’Keefe makes the case today that lawyers should rally to support net neutrality, the notion that the Internet should be a level playing field for all who participate. For that matter, mediators (whose stock in trade after all is neutrality) should, too.

When the inventor of the Internet himself (Tim Berners-Lee, not Al Gore) speaks out in its support, we’d all better listen. You can do just that by watching Berners-Lee’s impassioned and convincing video plea to preserve net neutrality. Amanda Congdon, host of the daily videoblog Rocketboom, has posted an editorial today you won’t want to miss that takes viewers on a road trip illustrating the impact of net neutrality’s demise.

To hear both sides of the issue, read these two dueling perspectives on net neutrality via Slashdot, which aired on National Public Radio this week, one by Scott Cleland, CEO of the Precursor Group, and a spokesperson for the telecom industry, and the other by Craig Newmark, founder of craigslist, and a proponent of net neutrality.

Before you make up your mind, ask yourself how much you trust Comcast or Verizon or any of the other telecom giants. Given the inexcusably rotten customer service experiences I’ve had with both of those corporate weasels, I know which side I’m on.

To join the good fight, visit SaveTheInternet.com.