Monthly Archives: April 2006

Attention mediation bloggers: Three ways to boost traffic to your mediation blog or web site

List your mediation blog or web site on any of these three directoriesHere’s a reminder to long-time subscribers and news for first-time visitors to this blog.

If you have a blog or a web site devoted to alternative dispute resolution, mediation, conflict management, negotiation, or if you publish a blog that regularly features posts about mediation or ADR, please sign yourself up to be listed at any or all of the following web sites:

Directory of Alternative Dispute Resolution Blogs

Currently this directory, a mediation blog work in progress which I launched just last month, lists 30 alternative dispute resolution and negotiation blogs, together with blogs that are mediation-friendly, across eight different categories. If you’d like your blog listed here, let me know. My hope is to do for ADR blogs what Blawg.org did for law blogs–a madcap scheme, I know, but, hey, a girl can dream, can’t she?

Alternative Dispute Resolution Web Ring

Anyone who owns a piece of Internet real estate–a blog, a web site, a wiki, a directory, an online community–devoted to ADR, mediation, conflict resolution, negotiation, you name it—can request a listing here. You can even upload a small image to appear next to your listing when you sign up.

For more details, you can visit the ADR Web Ring Portal, or go straight to the web ring itself.

Map of the Alternative Dispute Resolution World

Put yourself on the Map of the Alternative Dispute Resolution World, where you can post a message and add a link back to your web site or blog. (It’s also fun to see where around the globe your fellow mediators hang out.) This guestmap is not as populated as I’d like to see it–my goal is to have all continents (yes, including Antarctica) represented.


Listing on all of these sites is free of course–just a link back is all I ask.

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Tax Day observed at this week's Blawg Review

Today April 17 is tax day for Blawg ReviewToday marks the day that all Americans fear and despise: Tax Day. It’s our national day of reckoning with the Infernal Internal Revenue Service.

Enthusiasts of the Internal Revenue Code will want to visit this week’s Blawg Review, ably and entertainingly hosted by Villanova University School of Law Professor James Maule, whose expertise encompasses among other things the arcane mysteries of tax law.

Of particular interest to me as a history-loving taxpayer was the link from this edition of Blawg Review to the 1913 version of the U.S. tax filing form. (By way of comparison, here’s the 2005 version many taxpayers will be filing today.)

Man negotiates way to home ownership with one paper clip

Man negotiates his way to home ownership with a single red paper clipEvery journey begins with a single step. In the case of Canadian Kyle MacDonald, his began with a single red paper clip.

Kyle, who could teach the contestants on the reality show Unan1mous a thing or two about negotiating, decided to barter his way from a red paper clip to a house, using a series of upward trades to move closer to his goal, which now looks increasingly attainable.

You can read about Kyle’s adventures in bargaining here at his web site, One Red Paperclip.

Mediation Quote of the Week | April 17, 2006

Change means movement. Movement means friction. Only in the frictionless vacuum of a nonexistent abstract world can movement or change occur without that abrasive friction of conflict.

~ Saul Alinsky

 

 

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Poetic justice: First anniversary edition of Blawg Review hosted by law blogger poet David Giacolone

This week's Blawg Review hosted by poet laureate law blogger David GiacoloneDevotees of the law will not want to miss the first anniversary edition of Blawg Review, the weekly review of the best in law blogging, hosted by law blog poet laureate (and retired mediator) David Giacolone. David, whose highly creative law blog is celebrated for its “one-breath poetry & breathless punditry”, in the words of Blawg Review, delivers up plenty of witty commentary and the haiku his blog is known for.

Baseball fans (who all have a little poetry in their souls) should also take time to explore David’s baseball haiku. Sweetly evocative, these haiku will undoubtedly summon up the smell of hot dogs and mustard together with childhood memories of neighborhood pick-up games. My own favorite:

a long fly ball
arcs above the moon…
summer deepens

Change proposed to Massachusetts mediation confidentiality statute which would eliminate training requirement for mediators

Bar association proposes changes to Massachusetts mediation confidentiality statuteIn a move that has stunned members of the closely-knit alternative dispute resolution community here in Massachusetts, the Boston Bar Association (BBA) has announced that it has drafted a proposed amendment to the Massachusetts statute protecting mediation confidentiality and will hold a meeting on May 9 to provide stakeholders with an opportunity to submit their comments.

Together with the text of the proposed draft, the BBA has also released a Statement of Purpose explaining its reasons for developing this draft.

The statute as currently written applies only to mediators who enter into a written agreement with the parties and meet certain threshold requirements, including the completion of 30 hours of mediation training.

The BBA’s proposed draft, which would amend the confidentiality statute to codify certain public policy exceptions to confidentiality, omits entirely the training requirement for mediators and does not require a written agreement between the mediator and the parties. The proposed amendment defines a mediator merely as “an individual who conducts a mediation”.

These omissions would allow anyone at all, even those who have had no mediation training whatsoever, to be treated as mediators for purposes of the confidentiality statute. Theoretically then virtually anyone could assert this privilege and claim to be a mediator or a party to a mediation, creating an evidentiary nightmare for courts.

Reaction from mediators has been overwhelmingly negative. Many believe, as I do, that, if enacted, the BBA’s proposed amendment with its omission of training requirements for mediators would undo years of effort by many in the ADR field to improve the quality and integrity of mediation services and build public confidence in the profession. These efforts more recently included the 2003 addition of Rule 8, “Qualifications Standards for Neutrals“, to the Massachusetts Supreme Judicial Court Uniform Rules on Dispute Resolution. (Rule 8 sets forth training requirements for neutrals receiving court referrals and specify a minimum of 30 hours of training for mediators, together with a court orientation.)

Mediators I have spoken with are deeply troubled that the BBA did not obtain input from the broader ADR community in preparing this draft, an omission many view as inexplicable in light of the emphasis mediators place on collaborative efforts and transparency. Sentiment runs strong that any changes to Massachusetts law concerning the practice of mediation should occur only with full and public participation by and input from all stakeholders across the Commonwealth.

What the fate of the proposed amendment may be remains unseen, although given the reaction of mediators so far, it’s unlikely that this version will ever become law. Stay tuned.

Getting to No: Contestants negotiate for $1.5 million in new reality show "Unan1mous"

New reality show pits contestants against each other in negotiation over $1.5 million.Those who monitor treatments of negotiation and conflict resolution in popular culture (and who have strong stomachs) may want to tune in to Unan1mous, a U.S. reality television show now in its third week at Fox Broadcasting, and which the Washington Post has amusingly dubbed a “Zero Fun Game“.

(By the way, that’s not a typo you’re seeing—like the CBS series “Numb3rs” or the cheesy Brad Pitt flick, “Se7en”, “Unan1mous” follows the entertainment world trend to replace perfectly good letters with numbers in film and television titles–as much of an annoyance to type as they are to read).

The basic premise is this: nine individuals, sealed inside a windowless underground bunker, must make a single decision–to unanimously select one of themselves to receive $1.5 million.

Although the voiceover on the first episode melodramatically describes this as “a social experiment that will spiral completely out of control,” it is at bottom nothing more than a badly played negotiation game.

Contestants include a truck driver, a minister who runs an e-commerce business when she’s not preaching, a professional poker player, a human resources professional, a choreographer, a self-described “soccer mom”, a handbag designer, a real estate sales rep, and a “42 year old Temp Worker” (evidently a TV synonym for “loser”).

Each of these players must try to convince all the others that he or she should receive the prize money. Once the group reaches a unanimous decision, all the contestants are free to leave their captivity. If any of them leaves before a unanimous decision is reached, the prize money is instantly reduced by half.

We see the contestants use time-honored (and ineffective) strategies straight out of traditional, distributive bargaining–argument, persuasion, deception, appeals to sympathy, cultivation or subversion of alliances, and intimidation (this marks the first time I’ve heard eternal damnation invoked as a threat in a negotiation).

Tempers of course flare, and contestants begin behaving badly in predictable ways. Out of earshot of the others, some of them begin to reveal their true selves to the camera. On episode one, we hear the following confidences:

“My entire life is a game–but I play to win!” (the professional poker player)

“$1.5 million dollars is enough to make people lie, backstab, do whatever it takes. I know it is for me.” (the H.R. professional)

“What I tell the other people, what I don’t tell them, is very important. It’s like meeting a girl. You feed her a bunch of B.S. so you can bring her home [diabolical laughter].” (the real estate sales rep)

At the end of their first day of negotiations, the contestants not surprisingly fail to reach a unanimous decision. Consequences of course ensue, and the clock begins to run on the $1.5 million prize money, reducing it by a dollar for each second that passes until the contestants reach a unanimous decision at last. As of last night’s episode, the prize money had been reduced by more than half already, leaving just over $700,000.

Despite the utter ineffectiveness of the negotiation strategies they pursue, contestants are determinedly staying the course. An eternal optimist, I keep hoping that one of them will at some point turn to the others in a moment of inspiration and say, “Look, is there any way that all of us working together can beat the system and walk out of here with the prize money before it all disappears?” Surely cockroaches can’t be smarter than humans when it comes to problem solving.

However, at this point I’ve lost both interest and optimism–not to mention control over my family’s TV remote control device. You’ll just have to let me know how it all turns out.

What’s bugging us? Cockroaches rival humans in ability to make decisions as groups

Cockroaches are effective at group problem solvingWhatever my faults may be as a blogger, irregular posting is not among them. Readers will have to forgive me for nine days of unexplained silence here at Online Guide to Mediation.

Apart from the usual demands of work, I’ve unfortunately had a nasty malware infection to deal with on not just one, but two, computers. And this despite doing everything right–firewalls, updated virus definitions, and three (yup, that’s right, three) different anti-spyware programs on each laptop. (If you aren’t using it already, download Webroot’s Spy Sweeper–it saved my digital butt. It’s not free, but it performs its job with lethal accuracy, and, at $29.95 for a year’s subscription, it’s affordable.)

Now that my computers have been restored to health, it seemed somehow poetic to post about, well, bugs.

As I learned from this recent post at Collision Detection, Belgian researchers have demonstrated that cockroaches are able to make decisions as groups. They (cockroaches, that is, not Belgian researchers) approach problem solving in a democratic way, consulting with each other before making decisions. As one researcher told Discovery News,

Cockroaches are gregarious insects (that) benefit from living in groups. It increases their reproductive opportunities, (promotes) sharing of resources like shelter or food, prevents desiccation by aggregating more in dry environments, etc.

Let us hope that this news motivates us humans to work a little harder at collaboration. Otherwise, as Collision Detection author Clive Thompson says, cockroaches will definitely be inheriting the earth.

Caught napping: the benefits of napping include enhanced ability to problem solve

Today is National Napping DaySleep, as Shakespeare once observed and insomniacs know, possesses great restorative powers:

Sleep that knits up the ravell’d sleeve of care,
The death of each day’s life, sore labour’s bath,
Balm of hurt minds, great Nature’s second course,
Chief nourisher in life’s feast…

Macbeth II.ii

Sleep is undoubtedly foremost on the minds of sleep-deprived Americans who turned their clocks one hour ahead yesterday to mark the beginning of daylight savings time.

Knowing this, Bill and Camille Anthony, founders of the Napping Company, have designated today as National Napping Day to promote the numerous benefits napping confers, including enhanced creativity and problem solving abilities.

If this is the case, then mediators should not only urge their clients to “sleep on it” as they contemplate decisions but also allot time for parties to power nap when scheduling all-day marathon mediation sessions.

MEDIATION QUOTE OF THE WEEK April 3, 2006

Baseball quotes in honor of Opening Day for Major League Baseball(In the interests of full disclosure, only one of the following quotes has anything to do with the themes typically associated with “Mediation Quote of the Week”.)

Today is Opening Day–New Year’s Day for baseball fans. In celebration, here are three of my favorite baseball quotes:

The way a team plays as a whole determines its success. You may have the greatest bunch of individual stars in the world, but if they don’t play together, the club won’t be worth a dime.
~Babe Ruth

It breaks your heart. It is designed to break your heart. The game begins in spring, when everything else begins again, and it blossoms in the summer, filling the afternoons and evenings, and then as soon as the chill rains come, it stops and leaves you to face the fall alone.

~A. Bartlett Giamatti

That’s the true harbinger of spring, not crocuses or swallows returning to Capistrano, but the sound of a bat on the ball.

~Bill Veeck

Let the games begin.